{"id":3837,"date":"2021-04-02T16:28:13","date_gmt":"2021-04-02T16:28:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hoaa.heartofadoptions.com\/?p=3837"},"modified":"2021-04-05T20:11:13","modified_gmt":"2021-04-05T20:11:13","slug":"celebrating-asd-adoptions-world-autism-awareness-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hoaa.heartofadoptions.com\/celebrating-asd-adoptions-world-autism-awareness-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Celebrating ASD Adoptions & World Autism Awareness Day"},"content":{"rendered":"
April 2<\/span>nd<\/span>\u00a0is designated as World Autism Awareness Day,\u00a0and it\u2019s\u00a0the perfect time to\u00a0<\/span>p<\/span>r<\/span>ovide\u00a0<\/span>a few<\/span>\u00a0helpful<\/span>\u00a0tips to<\/span>\u00a0those who have adopted or are considering adopting\u00a0<\/span>a child<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>with\u00a0<\/span>Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Did You know?<\/strong><\/p>\n T<\/span>he\u00a0<\/span>Center for Disease Control\u00a0and Prevention (CDC)<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>states that the prevalence of autism\u00a0<\/span>rose<\/span>\u00a0from\u00a01 in 125<\/em>\u00a0in 2004 to\u00a01 in 54<\/em>\u00a0in 2016<\/span>.<\/span>\u00a0It\u2019s important to note that children with\u00a0<\/span>ASD<\/span>\u00a0are\u00a0<\/span>more\u00a0<\/span>likely to end up in the foster care system.<\/span><\/p>\n This environment of unpredictability and change is quite scary for any child, especially for ASD children.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>How can parents<\/span>\u00a0help\u00a0<\/span>thei<\/span>r child adapt comfortabl<\/span>y<\/span>\u00a0to\u00a0<\/span>a\u00a0<\/span>new home environment?<\/span>\u00a0Below are a few tips to help\u00a0<\/span>with<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>the<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>transition<\/span>:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Create Consistency<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n And no, we don\u2019t mean that you\u00a0<\/span>must<\/span>\u00a0become<\/span>\u00a0like<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Bill Murray\u2019s character<\/span>\u00a0Phil Connors<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0forever stuck in a loop on\u00a0<\/span>Groundhog\u2019s Day.<\/span>\u00a0However, d<\/span>eveloping a\u00a0<\/span>daily\u00a0<\/span>routine is an integral part of\u00a0<\/span>every\u00a0<\/span>child\u2019s growth<\/span>\u00a0and happiness<\/span>.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>This is<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>especially\u00a0<\/span>crucial for<\/span>\u00a0foster and<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>adopted\u00a0<\/span>children with ASD.\u00a0<\/span>Predictability of daily routines can set your child up for success.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n A Few\u00a0<\/span><\/i>Suggestion<\/span><\/i>s\u00a0<\/span><\/i>f<\/span><\/i>rom\u00a0<\/span><\/i>P<\/span><\/i>arents of\u00a0<\/span><\/i>C<\/span><\/i>hildren with ASD:<\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Build Trust and Respect<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Aretha Franklin\u00a0<\/span>was completely<\/span>\u00a0right when she sang \u201cR-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me.\u201d Learning to build\u00a0<\/span>an adopted child\u2019s\u00a0<\/span>trust and earn their respe<\/span>ct is all about learning th<\/span>eir<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>person<\/span>ality<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span>This is especially true for children with ASD who often fixate on special interests<\/span>. Does your child love facts about sharks? Ask them for a new fact each day! Do they love to draw? Have a special space to post their picture of the week.\u00a0<\/span>Become engaged and supportive in their interests and\u00a0<\/span>do your best to\u00a0<\/span>communicate with them\u00a0<\/span>in a way they understand.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Oftentimes, children with ASD are literal.<\/span>\u00a0Building trust means communicating with them effectively. Sarcasm and jokes often end in confusion and hu<\/span>rt feelings<\/span>\u00a0with an ASD child<\/span>. Learn your child\u2019s way of communicating<\/span>\u00a0and expressing their emotions<\/span>\u00a0and mimic it<\/span>. If they are nonverbal,\u00a0<\/span>this\u00a0<\/span>blog on autismspeaks.org<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0is a great resource for\u00a0<\/span>creative ways to\u00a0<\/span>communicat<\/span>e<\/span>\u00a0with your child.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Patience, <\/span><\/b>Patience, Patience<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We\u2019ve all seen the Disney cartoons where Donald Duck<\/span>\u2019s short-fuse is displayed through his red face rising like a temperature gauge about to burst. By that point, we\u00a0<\/span>a<\/span>ll know that poor Donald is stressed out because things aren\u2019t going his way. But how do we, as parents, make sure our gauge never reaches those limits?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s simple. Start with empathy, not anger. Many adopted ASD children<\/span>\u00a0have had<\/span>\u00a0to deal with<\/span>\u00a0a\u00a0<\/span>huge amount\u00a0<\/span>of trauma in their lives. Stop and think about the escalating situation\u00a0<\/span>and<\/span>\u00a0breathe deeply. Ask yourself what you can do to help de-escalate the moment<\/span>. The most important thing you can do for your child is to remain calm<\/span>. T<\/span>hey look to you as the prime example of how to behave.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If a difficult task is the source of the meltdown, help\u00a0<\/span>break down the big obstacle into smaller<\/span>, more manageable<\/span>\u00a0pieces. Always remember,\u00a0<\/span>patience and love will go a long way in building a\u00a0<\/span>supportive,<\/span>\u00a0trust-<\/span>f<\/span>illed environment for your child.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Self-Care<\/span><\/b>\u00a0is Essential<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n\n
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